One of the thoughts
that were raised indirectly in your letter, just to give you an example of how my mind works, is that I am going to be mailing a letter to Bobbielou each Sunday night and Thursday night.
For better or worse Bobbielou has obviously taken an interest in my day to day well being, and it is probably a little passive-aggressive of me to not send her regular letters. I have written a few letters to her that were probably sitting in her 'office' when she made her latest comments.
It should certainly not be your responsibility to keep her personally informed of my personal well being. This is one of those relationship examples of how two people communicate. On the one hand if Bobbielou wants to know how I am let her send me a letter and I will certainly answer.
But Bobbielou's outlook is that her thinking of me on a daily basis is enough for me to know that she cares and I should send more letters. Neither position is inherently right. To involve you into the triangle is certainly not necessary. If my telling Bobbielou to cool the email excess somehow stepped on your toes as far as any 'relationship' you have with her than I am sorry for that.
I hope you understand how much of a dark tunnel I operate in and when you raise an issue that I feel I might be able to help with I jump at the chance. At the same time, when you voice your dismay in not getting enough sex, I do not sit down and write letters to your wife telling her to get with the program. Does that make sense?
I sort of hope we are not both 'fighting' for attention from Bobbielou, and if so hey you are the one that should win you are out there in the free world. If this whole issue seems to be the product of an over active imagination, then chalk it up to one of the by-products of being friends with a creative genius. HA HA HA....